If you knew your spouse had a debilitating illness or a mental illness would you not have married them?

folks that take that vow "for better or worse" have no idea what they're getting themselves into. when push comes to shove no one really takes their vows seriously. it's never been easier to end a marriage than it is today and folks will bail out of their marriage the moment marriage becomes inconvenient for them. i wouldn't get involved with anyone with all those problems. very few folks would. you'd have to be a saint or a fool to take on those problems when you have the chance to walk away.