Parents are you very blunt with the other adults in your life?

Like with your spouse, parents, in laws, gf bf or whatever - with any issue that arises? Like telling a mil that she's over stepping bounds or telling a spouse that you need more attention or telling a sibling they need to stop doing whatever. All example. Not in any of those situations. Just curious if parents are generally blunt when their own needs come into play. I think I am to an extent. On iPod so plz excuse typos